Sunday, May 11, 2008

I was born in Corpus Christi, Texas in 1972. I was raised in and around south Texas. I joined the United States Air Force (USAF) in 1992, and graduated the USAF Security Police Academy the same year. I left active military duty in 1996, and in 1997 went into the USAF Reserve, stationed in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I graduated from the Air Force School of Aerospace Medicine as a medical technician in 1998. I departed the Air Force Reserve in 1999 and moved to San Antonio in February of 2000. I currently work in the department of patient accounts for a local emergency medical billing agency. Volunteer Experience: I held the volunteer position of medical coordinator for the North Dakota Area 5 Special Olympics from 1998 to 2000, and I currently hold the position of Secretary for Firedancers-San Antonio, a leather/Levi club that raises money for the local community for HIV/AIDS charities.

I am gay and sometimes people find it strange that I do masculine and phsyical jobs and don't fit the stereotype of being a 'gay' man. People associate 'gay' with feminity and weakness and jobs that aren't physical or stereotypically masculine. Unfortunately I have lost friendships with people who could not believe and stand the thought that i was gay. Dating is hard. Trying to find the right match who accepts you, love you and most importantly willing to try with you is a very hard thing to find. Dating can be difficult as some men try to hide and don't want to be seen in public enjoying the simple things in life - a walk, dinner, a movie - with another man. They expect meals at home and to have dates constantly behind closed doors.

7 comments:

david santos said...

Olá, Michele!
Eu aconselho-o a viver a sua vida com naturalidade e sem preconceitos.
É que da forma como apresenta o seu caso, ele parece mais um problema de solidão do que qualquer outro tipo de problema.
Encare a vida e deixe o que não lhe interessa pata trás.
Parabéns.

Claudinha ੴ said...

Loba? Uai, mudou aqui?

Bem, seja o que seu coração e sua essência forem. Ninguém tem o direito de ter preconceito. Seja feliz à sua maneira!
Kisses!

Somos Luz em Ação said...

Bom dia Loba ,vi seus comentarios no site da minha tia Jeanete Ruaro de poesias e me parece que voces eram amigas,tenho a triste mensagem p/voce que ela esta escrevendo poesias no ceu,ela faleceu ontem a tarde,se voce quiser entrar em contato comigo,meu e-mail e: dalves1258@msn.com
Um grande abraco

Teste Sniqper said...

Quem conhece a sua ignorância revela a mais profunda sapiência. Quem ignora a sua ignorância vive na mais profunda ilusão.

MANCHA said...

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Giovani Iemini said...

it´s sad be gay.

Luiz Penna said...

Olá, o seu blog é muito bom.
Leve e sincero. Recentemente fiz um link dele no meu blog
www.cenadois.blogspot.com

Um grande abraço